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Devan Futten

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May 14, 2025

Your Body, Your Journey – Why Comparison Is the Thief of Progress

In fitness and in life, one of the biggest mindset traps we fall into is comparison. We scroll through social media, we glance around the gym, and we quietly wonder why our bodies don’t look like “theirs.” It’s easy to feel behind, not enough, or stuck. But here’s the truth most people forget:

Your body is uniquely yours. And that’s your greatest advantage.

Your height, your build, your hormones, your genetics, your lifestyle, your struggles, and your story – no one else has your exact combination. So why do we keep holding ourselves to someone else’s standard?

👉 Their timeline is not yours.
👉 Their results are not yours.
👉 Their goals might not even be yours.

You don’t know what they’ve been through. You don’t know how long they’ve been training. You don’t know if they’re sacrificing sleep, happiness, or health for that “look.” And they don’t know your path either.

The Real Progress You Should Celebrate 🎉

Too often, we overlook what matters most: feeling stronger, more confident, and more in control of our health. That might not show up in a photo — but it will show up in your life.

Progress looks like:

  • Being able to carry all your groceries in one trip 💪
  • Waking up with energy instead of soreness
  • Not needing to catch your breath after climbing the stairs
  • Finally wearing the shorts or tank top you used to avoid
  • Having a good relationship with food and movement

Those wins? They’re massive. And they’re yours.

Focus on Competing With One Person: You from Yesterday

The only comparison that helps is the one that looks in the mirror. Are you showing up a little more than last month? Eating a bit more intentionally? Moving with better form? That’s growth. That’s momentum. And that’s what leads to long-term results.

Comparison breeds insecurity, and insecurity kills consistency. You don’t need that noise in your head. You need clarity, encouragement, and a plan.

So give yourself some grace. Celebrate where you are. And keep going — because your journey is already worth it.

Ready to Block Out the Noise and Focus on YOU?

We believe in personalized progress. No cookie-cutter plans. No pressure to “look” a certain way. Just a proven system that meets you where you are and helps you move forward with confidence.

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Your body is yours. Own it. ❤️
Your progress is yours. Protect it.
And your journey? It’s just getting started.

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